Pursuing God’s Direction in Your Marriage

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How do you and your spouse go about making decisions?

So much of the time we can get caught up in everyday life, living on autopilot, that we miss the purpose behind what we’re doing.

Join us on today’s video as we talk about how to make decisions as a team with purpose and how to stop living on autopilot.
 

Main points:

0:25 We can get into a pattern and rhythm in life.

0:33 If we’re not careful, we can pick our heads up 5 years down the road and wonder what happened.

1:28 We need to be asking ourselves, “what is the goal for where God has us?”

1:25 God-directed goals will shape our decisions

3:35 Our focus has to be heaven and God-focused, not earth-focused.

3:55 We have to get out of autopilot.

5:20 What is the ‘why’ behind what we’re choosing to do?

6:00 If we understand our why, then we’re not going to feel like we’re floundering. Then there is a purpose to what we’re doing.

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