If you’ve read my previous blog, you know I tend to analyze things to death, often focusing solely on the flaws. After writing that blog, I saw another important lesson that I missed the first time. Not only do I often see the worst in myself, but I tend to see the worst in my wife far more often than I would like to admit. The same is true in many marriages--the little things grate on you after a while, then you have a choice to make--will you focus on the negative or the positive? I have … [Read more...]
#9: Overcoming the Loss of a Child (Kim & Larry Peacock)
This week on the podcast, we had the pleasure of talking with Kim and Larry Peacock. They opened up about the sudden loss of their daughter and how they kept their marriage strong during the crisis and in the years since. We talk about how to work through trauma, what the healing process might look like when you and your spouse grieve differently, and how to keep God's perspective. They are an amazing couple who have kept the focus on Jesus and are allowing Him to use their story to bring Him … [Read more...]
Getting out of a Funk in Your Marriage
Have you ever had one of those weeks where things just felt off with you and your spouse? We have. There was about a three week period where we were just missing each other and taking out our stress on one another. I was hormonal and moody and Adam was anxious and stressed. Let me just tell you, that's a terrible combination and a recipe for disaster. There were many arguments that seemed like they were pointless. We’d resolve one conflict and then head right into another one. The times where we … [Read more...]
#5: Marriage: Withstanding the Storm of Cancer (Kevin & Becky McIntire)
Have you ever wondered how a couple keeps their marriage strong in the midst of a serious illness? Today, Kevin and Becky McIntire share their raw, personal story of walking through cancer and how they stayed a strong team through struggle and uncertainty. They walk us through the dark moments that cancer brought, how their relationship with Jesus kept them together, and how they withstood the storm as a united team. Be sure to listen in! #5: Withstanding the Storm of Cancer (Kevin & Becky … [Read more...]
#4: Being Fully Present in Your Marriage (Bob Goff)
Today we had an awesome time talking with Bob Goff! In today’s podcast he talks with us about being fully present and kind, and what this looks like with our spouses. We hope you have as much fun listening to his stories and wisdom as we did! #4: Being Fully Present in Your Marriage (Bob Goff) Mentioned in This Episode: Where to find Bob: BobGoff.com Dream Big Framework Follow Bob on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter Bob's Latest Books: Love Does Everybody … [Read more...]
8 Simple Steps to a Lifelong Marriage
As I was growing up, I was a pretty quiet kid. I didn’t say much, but I was always watching. In our church group, I paid special attention to one family. The husband had a sharp mind for business and was always trying something new. He and his wife led a bible study in their home every week for decades--theirs was the longest running group I was aware of. In addition, he ran a men’s group, and she ran a women’s group. They always seemed to be so in love, and have a great dynamic with their many … [Read more...]
#2: From the Brink of Divorce: A Story of Hope
In this podcast, we get real and raw about our story. This was a difficult podcast for us to record, but we feel led by God to let Him use our story for His glory. We pray that this podcast encourages you and helps you to know that there is hope for any and every marriage when a husband and wife submit themselves to the Lord. #2: From the Brink of Divorce: A Story of Hope Mentioned in This Episode: Get help: If you're in a similar situation to the one we were in, check … [Read more...]
A Marriage Journey
One night a young husband dreamed that he and his wife were walking along a long dirt road. It was the path of their lives as they headed toward heaven. The road wound through a valley surrounded by hills. It was beautiful, quiet, and they rarely saw anyone else for long. It was a great place to talk and find peace. They walk together, side by side, staying on the same road, experiencing the journey at the same time, as one. They’re following a set of footprints made long ago. They know these … [Read more...]
To Submit or Not to Submit?
Submission is probably one of the most controversial words in the English language. At least in marriage conversations. This word has caused division between married couples-- husbands abusing the word and, using it as an excuse to react with control, pride, and aggression, while women either reject the word, trying to force respect or misunderstand the word, embracing the fallacy that they aren’t worthy of respect. As a culture, we’ve taken a beautiful concept and tainted it with our … [Read more...]
Pillow Talk: 11 Secrets to a Great Sex Life
Let’s talk about sex. If you asked me before I got married, I would have told you that one of the things I was most excited for was sex. I couldn’t wait to be connected to Adam in such an intimate way. I thought our honeymoon was going to just be us in our hotel room the whole time. During and after our honeymoon, however, I found sex to be overwhelming, awkward, disappointing, and honestly, just really difficult. Five years later and my tune has completely changed. I enjoy sex and look … [Read more...]