The Most Important Marriage Advice

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In this video, we talk about the most important marriage advice we could ever give…and that’s to surrender your hearts to Jesus. It may seem simple, but the beauty of it is found in the simplicity. Following the Lord as individuals and as a team will make all the difference!

Main points:

[0:13] The most important thing in our marriage is to have a personal relationship with Jesus and to pursue that relationship.

[0:44] When couples pray together regularly, they have a divorce rate of less than 1%.

[1:55] What it comes down to is a heart issue. We have to WANT the Lord with our hearts.

[4:07] Our God is a God of unity, so if we are both following Him, we will be on the same page.

[4:47] If we are pursuing our own way, that is the fastest way to put a wedge between us and our spouse.


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